Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Men VS Women


So I never really thought this through. I've already realized that men and women think differently, but now I've come to the conclusion that men have totally different personality traits compared to women. Men rationalize situations more objectively, and they do it to maintain their ego at times. Women on the other hand tend to nit-pick every little thing, overanalyzing details and guessing the meaning of each action or behavior while a man would actually find out the facts. Women rely on the feelings and opinions. Some men don't know how to emotionally connect with anybody, including women. Those are most likely your self-absorbed, sex-loving fiends... Just kidding. But maybe. Lol.

Here's an example.. You're a girl at school, or at work, and you're walking through the corridor and you see a guy that you've had your eye on for quite some time. He takes a glimpse of you, smiles, and goes about his day. You approach your group of friends with a smile, "Heeee was giving me THE look."

A girl is likely to analyze his behavior and utilize it and mold it into something it totally wasn't. Whereas, a guy walking in the hallway realizes this gorgeous girl giving him the eye, and doesn't go write about the event in his diary.

Let's face it. Many men are emotionally detached and have a harder time with compassion than girls. They'd rather focus on justice, [notice most lawyers are men..] than subjective things. We can go on and on and run in circles about nature vs nurture and if these traits are biologically implanted within our genders.. But the way girls and boys have been raised might have alot to do with this. Double standards... Men feel a greater longing for freedom than females do. This might be why guys have a harder time committing themselves to one girl, while girls [not alll but generally] jump right on the chance

anyway, im closing with this. Men->sex, money, success Women->feelings, happiness, love, success [sex too but face it, they'd rather just find their other half.]

Sashie washie.

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